Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My EX! ??

Falling2Pieces

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Okay, me and my ex left on bad terms about 3 months ago. We didn't talk, or even look at eachother. So about 3 weeks ago she calls me and wants to be on "good terms" and says it cool to smash. We WERE both virgins and we were eachother's first. I told her I didn't want to just **** I wanted a girlfriend. She calls me a few days in a row after so I figure we're on the samepage. So today we hang out for the first time, and she mentions it again "If you want to **** its cool, but I'm not sure about the other part of being yours" or something close to that. Should I even bother with her? Or :woo:
I want her, and her body :D but both at the same time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Patrick124

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cant win ever battle.
why not just fvkc her a bunch and get the most out fo it.
unless ur scared of oneitis[its a ***** lol. i get oneitis so easily sometimes]
 

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A girl tells you she wants to f*ck and you say no???
 

Damian

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It seems like a tempting frame trap. You'll just be her new toy. If she isn't willing to meet your conditions, tell her to take a walk. For all you care, you can get sex anywhere else.

If you just want to just screw, you can go hit on any other guy out there, so unless you will meet my conditions, we're done.

-Damian
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cubed

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Go for it, but as she said, don't expect it to go anywhere. If you're lucky, you may go back to what you had before, but don't count on it.

As always, don't get yourself in a vulnerable spot.
 

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I'd fvck her. She's offering you sex. I see no reason to refuse the requet.
 

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It seems like a tempting frame trap.

Excellent point D.
Agree to the bootie calls, but make them happen on your terms, don't go running to her everytime she calls.

What you can do then is find another girl (or two) and setup bootie calls with them. If she finds out about the other girls, good!
 

toddC

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dude u just got a fvck buddy...i WISH i was in your shoes lol...all i want to do right now is get laid cause i'm a virgin...i wish a girlw ould just be like come fvck me whenever u want and not have any attachments!
 
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