"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My EX! ??

Falling2Pieces

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Okay, me and my ex left on bad terms about 3 months ago. We didn't talk, or even look at eachother. So about 3 weeks ago she calls me and wants to be on "good terms" and says it cool to smash. We WERE both virgins and we were eachother's first. I told her I didn't want to just **** I wanted a girlfriend. She calls me a few days in a row after so I figure we're on the samepage. So today we hang out for the first time, and she mentions it again "If you want to **** its cool, but I'm not sure about the other part of being yours" or something close to that. Should I even bother with her? Or :woo:
I want her, and her body :D but both at the same time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Patrick124

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cant win ever battle.
why not just fvkc her a bunch and get the most out fo it.
unless ur scared of oneitis[its a ***** lol. i get oneitis so easily sometimes]
 

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A girl tells you she wants to f*ck and you say no???
 

Damian

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It seems like a tempting frame trap. You'll just be her new toy. If she isn't willing to meet your conditions, tell her to take a walk. For all you care, you can get sex anywhere else.

If you just want to just screw, you can go hit on any other guy out there, so unless you will meet my conditions, we're done.

-Damian
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cubed

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Go for it, but as she said, don't expect it to go anywhere. If you're lucky, you may go back to what you had before, but don't count on it.

As always, don't get yourself in a vulnerable spot.
 

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I'd fvck her. She's offering you sex. I see no reason to refuse the requet.
 

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It seems like a tempting frame trap.

Excellent point D.
Agree to the bootie calls, but make them happen on your terms, don't go running to her everytime she calls.

What you can do then is find another girl (or two) and setup bootie calls with them. If she finds out about the other girls, good!
 

toddC

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dude u just got a fvck buddy...i WISH i was in your shoes lol...all i want to do right now is get laid cause i'm a virgin...i wish a girlw ould just be like come fvck me whenever u want and not have any attachments!
 
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