"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My ex wants to get back together

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I just got out of a 6 1/2 month realationship on saint patties day. She already wants me back. But I just met all these new girls and planed stuff with em and stuff. I did some oral stuff last night with one of em who seems the most promising at the moment. Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?

Oh plus me and my ex had this "agreement" that on this break thingy we wouldn't do anything sexual with anyone else. :/ I kinda broke that
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Now she keeps trying to make me feel sorry for her and keep saying she will always be second best and stuff :/
 
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just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)
 
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Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?
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You answered your own question.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)
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LMAO


But yeah man, do what makes you happy.....I was just in a similar situation and I went witht hat makes me happy
 
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