"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My ex wants to get back together

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I just got out of a 6 1/2 month realationship on saint patties day. She already wants me back. But I just met all these new girls and planed stuff with em and stuff. I did some oral stuff last night with one of em who seems the most promising at the moment. Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?

Oh plus me and my ex had this "agreement" that on this break thingy we wouldn't do anything sexual with anyone else. :/ I kinda broke that
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Now she keeps trying to make me feel sorry for her and keep saying she will always be second best and stuff :/
 

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just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)
 

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Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?
You answered your own question.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten said:
just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)

LMAO


But yeah man, do what makes you happy.....I was just in a similar situation and I went witht hat makes me happy
 
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