"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My ex wants to get back together

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I just got out of a 6 1/2 month realationship on saint patties day. She already wants me back. But I just met all these new girls and planed stuff with em and stuff. I did some oral stuff last night with one of em who seems the most promising at the moment. Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?

Oh plus me and my ex had this "agreement" that on this break thingy we wouldn't do anything sexual with anyone else. :/ I kinda broke that
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Now she keeps trying to make me feel sorry for her and keep saying she will always be second best and stuff :/
 

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just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)
 

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Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?
You answered your own question.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten said:
just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)

LMAO


But yeah man, do what makes you happy.....I was just in a similar situation and I went witht hat makes me happy
 
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