"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My ex wants to get back together

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I just got out of a 6 1/2 month realationship on saint patties day. She already wants me back. But I just met all these new girls and planed stuff with em and stuff. I did some oral stuff last night with one of em who seems the most promising at the moment. Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?

Oh plus me and my ex had this "agreement" that on this break thingy we wouldn't do anything sexual with anyone else. :/ I kinda broke that
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Now she keeps trying to make me feel sorry for her and keep saying she will always be second best and stuff :/
 

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just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)
 

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Its like I want to just **** chicks for the time being not be in a realationship you know? So what should I do?
You answered your own question.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten said:
just tell her that you just wanna be single for a while since the break up came as such a shock. :)

LMAO


But yeah man, do what makes you happy.....I was just in a similar situation and I went witht hat makes me happy
 
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