“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My ex sent me a message on facebook last night... how do i reply?

bigshot

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Basically i cut the contact after we broke up on the 1st dec, haven't heard from her since (apart from a 'happy new year' text) . . . i still think about her alot, im not over her yet . . . this is the message she sent me:

"hey bigshot
proper random i know, just messaging 2 c hw u r.. know its been a while.. hope uni and everythings going good..
realy just wanted 2 c how u r..
i understand if u dnt message bak..
take care x"

Now what should i do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dannyrt34

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Don't respond.. If you're not over her yet, you won't get over her unless you continue to cut all contact.

Whenever you do get over her, no matter how long it takes. Only then is when you can contact her without it affecting your feelings.
 

Black suit

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General rule of thumb is to not contact back. So don't. Listen to the advice we're giving here.
 

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i agree, if you want her back DO NOT CONTACT. wait a couple more months and let her wonder what you are up to. no repsonse is the best response. im not just saying this for you to get over her...im saying this because it is the best way to keep her interseted if you want her back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuan11

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bigshot said:
Basically i cut the contact after we broke up on the 1st dec, haven't heard from her since (apart from a 'happy new year' text) . . . i still think about her alot, im not over her yet . . . this is the message she sent me:

"hey bigshot
proper random i know, just messaging 2 c hw u r.. know its been a while.. hope uni and everythings going good..
realy just wanted 2 c how u r..
i understand if u dnt message bak..
take care x"

Now what should i do?
Kontroller just wrote the best post about this type of situation a week ago. The bottom line was "No response."
 
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