A couple of days ago I had made a post about my manhood not getting hard when it was time to get busy.. well it happend again! Now I'm getting scared.. this time it happend right in the middle of sex.. just went limp on me.. and wouldn't get back up .. help!! I think I'm about to seek proffessional help..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
my d**ks broke.. help!!!
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maxtro
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Since you typed d**ks I'm assuming you have more than one. If that's the case just use one that works 
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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So why did you make a whole new thread about the same thing? I've done that before with other topics so I feel you man (not literally). See my update on your original post.cola said:
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you do know that you are allowed to jerk off in order to get hard before, and during sex......your own hands ARE allowed to touch your own d1ck.
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
How old are you bro? If you can't get an erection, visualize your 'fantasy girl' right in front of you. This may help, although it may violate your moral conscience.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Allurre said:
but just do it till you are hard - the girl wont mind this at all (I have had maybe 5% of girls mind me jacking myself till i get hard), just make sure that while getting yourself hard with one hand, you are doing something to her with your other hand, whether it be fingering, or slapping her azz, or caressing her