A couple of days ago I had made a post about my manhood not getting hard when it was time to get busy.. well it happend again! Now I'm getting scared.. this time it happend right in the middle of sex.. just went limp on me.. and wouldn't get back up .. help!! I think I'm about to seek proffessional help..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
my d**ks broke.. help!!!
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Since you typed d**ks I'm assuming you have more than one. If that's the case just use one that works 
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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So why did you make a whole new thread about the same thing? I've done that before with other topics so I feel you man (not literally). See my update on your original post.cola said:
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you do know that you are allowed to jerk off in order to get hard before, and during sex......your own hands ARE allowed to touch your own d1ck.
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
How old are you bro? If you can't get an erection, visualize your 'fantasy girl' right in front of you. This may help, although it may violate your moral conscience.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Allurre said:
but just do it till you are hard - the girl wont mind this at all (I have had maybe 5% of girls mind me jacking myself till i get hard), just make sure that while getting yourself hard with one hand, you are doing something to her with your other hand, whether it be fingering, or slapping her azz, or caressing her