A couple of days ago I had made a post about my manhood not getting hard when it was time to get busy.. well it happend again! Now I'm getting scared.. this time it happend right in the middle of sex.. just went limp on me.. and wouldn't get back up .. help!! I think I'm about to seek proffessional help..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
my d**ks broke.. help!!!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maxtro
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Since you typed d**ks I'm assuming you have more than one. If that's the case just use one that works 
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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So why did you make a whole new thread about the same thing? I've done that before with other topics so I feel you man (not literally). See my update on your original post.cola said:
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you do know that you are allowed to jerk off in order to get hard before, and during sex......your own hands ARE allowed to touch your own d1ck.
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
How old are you bro? If you can't get an erection, visualize your 'fantasy girl' right in front of you. This may help, although it may violate your moral conscience.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Allurre said:
but just do it till you are hard - the girl wont mind this at all (I have had maybe 5% of girls mind me jacking myself till i get hard), just make sure that while getting yourself hard with one hand, you are doing something to her with your other hand, whether it be fingering, or slapping her azz, or caressing her