A couple of days ago I had made a post about my manhood not getting hard when it was time to get busy.. well it happend again! Now I'm getting scared.. this time it happend right in the middle of sex.. just went limp on me.. and wouldn't get back up .. help!! I think I'm about to seek proffessional help..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
my d**ks broke.. help!!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
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Since you typed d**ks I'm assuming you have more than one. If that's the case just use one that works 
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
Before you decide to see a doctor I suggest jerking off a couple of times to make sure there is nothing wrong with you. If you can't get hard or orgasm then you may have a serious problem. If you can get hard and cum then you are physically fine. Your problem would just be all in your head.
If it happens again just stop and try to relax. Sit or lie down and just try to calm yourself. Tell her to give you a blow job or jerk you. Don't think about not being able to get erect and just enjoy the sensations. As it is now your own anxieties are messing with you.
Edit: I'm not going to bother wasting another post in this thread.
Since cola obviously ignored my post (for now) it's obvious he doesn't want help. Unless somebody can give him better advice then I did, I suggest that nobody else should bother with further replies.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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So why did you make a whole new thread about the same thing? I've done that before with other topics so I feel you man (not literally). See my update on your original post.cola said:
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you do know that you are allowed to jerk off in order to get hard before, and during sex......your own hands ARE allowed to touch your own d1ck.
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
It's happened to me before many many times that before or during sex, I am not hard or not hard enough, so I just start jerking for 10secs - 2 min while fingering the girl, and eventually you get IN THE ZONE, and get hard, and then its time to make love hard and deep inside her
How old are you bro? If you can't get an erection, visualize your 'fantasy girl' right in front of you. This may help, although it may violate your moral conscience.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
If not, you can always stimulate yourself as Logical Player puts it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Allurre said:
but just do it till you are hard - the girl wont mind this at all (I have had maybe 5% of girls mind me jacking myself till i get hard), just make sure that while getting yourself hard with one hand, you are doing something to her with your other hand, whether it be fingering, or slapping her azz, or caressing her