"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My cousin hooks me up with a fat ugly chick.

Stéphane

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Anyways do you remember that fat thread, well my cousin is trying to hook me up with an even fatter chick. Like I don't like been an ass, but how I tell her i'm not interested, it's my cousin...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stéphane said:
Anyways do you remember that fat thread, well my cousin is trying to hook me up with an even fatter chick. Like I don't like been an ass, but how I tell her i'm not interested, it's my cousin...

Just be honest and say you don't like fatties.
 

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Can't really say that, she's kind of fat too... lol. What a dilemna I got myself into.
 

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Why is your cousin hooking you up with chicks anyway, and fat ones especially?

Tell her you're seeing someone else and that you'll add on her on the waiting list :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Because the girl seen a photo of me on facebook, and she asked my cousin for me, because she thought I was hot..

I told my cousin that i'm dating 3 girls right now, and i'm moving soon so it wouldnt work out. She bought it, because it's also pretty much true.
 

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bigjohnson said:
How would she look with your côck in her mouth?
Didn't think of it that way, but I never hooked up with a fat chick b4 how does it feel.
 

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hahahahhah tell her you don't like fat girls! don't be a puss.

if your cousin is that hypersensitive about her weight maybe she'll have a panic attack and realize she needs to stop eating those god damn big macs every day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stéphane said:
Didn't think of it that way, but I never hooked up with a fat chick b4 how does it feel.
I'm not sure but I bet it's the same, except she might have lower expectations.
 

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Philip Roth once wrote "Ugly girls will do whatever you want them to do. They're just grateful for the attention".
 
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