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My Cousin Has Changed After Prison

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My cousin and I used to be almost as close as brothers. He goes in for the better part of a decade and cuts off contact with most people including me. He has been out for about 11 months.

He comes to visit me because he is having a hard time adjusting fully. His gf he left on the outside has been acting differently among other things.

His personality is much more abrasive now. He complains a lot and is never satisfied. He was never this unpleasant before. He used to be such a loving chill dude.

He stays with me for a while and I give him the shirt on my back. I buy him things and roll out the red carpet for him but he does not seem to appreciate it.

He even told me that prison taught him to trust no one ( he said he doesnt even trust me).

This is just making me sad. Im around my late 30s and thats when he went in. I feel like I lost my cousin.

I want to be understanding but at the same time its tough when he is so aggressive now.
 

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Dude needs a dog
 

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Maybe he got raped in jail. Does he walk funny? Did the cops plant drugs or was he in for something he actually did?
 
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Maybe he got raped in jail. Does he walk funny? Did the cops plant drugs or was he in for something he actually did?
He was a selling a lot drugs and guns for a long time. Maybe he got raped in jail. I know that he is super paranoid about tight spaces, dark spaces etc. Maybe he needs therapy. He seems reluctant to tell me if anyone attacked him in prison.

Funny thing is he still has a criminal mindset its just that he is reluctant to act on it. Many of these people are fundamentally flawed in the way they think. Their brain is wired to take the short cut.
 

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He was a selling a lot drugs and guns for a long time. Maybe he got raped in jail. I know that he is super paranoid about tight spaces, dark spaces etc. Maybe he needs therapy. He seems reluctant to tell me if anyone attacked him in prison.

Funny thing is he still has a criminal mindset its just that he is reluctant to act on it. Many of these people are fundamentally flawed in the way they think. Their brain is wired to take the short cut.
You become like those you spend the most time with. So if you want a future as a criminal, continue hanging out with him.

it is much easier to get dragged down than pulled up.
 

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You become like those you spend the most time with. So if you want a future as a criminal, continue hanging out with him.

it is much easier to get dragged down than pulled up.
Yeh I agree man. Im not hanging with him anymore. He lives several states away and this is the first time ive seen him since he was released. You have to see a person when they get out of prison. I cant just not see him at least once. After this though im good unless its family functions.
 

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My cousin kind of reminds me of how one of my friends was when he first got out of Marine Corp bootcamp. Just aggressive af and high strung. I was like relax man.

Except my Marine friends didnt have the criminal mindset to go with it.
 
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