"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My buddy and I # closed same girl

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My buddy and I # closed same girl. I Did 2-3 weeks ago, still working on how to get her out. My buddy # closed her today in the same shopping mall.
She doesn't say much in text, you know the one/two words reply. I only asked her out one time but she said she is more free on Wednesday then the next Wednesday came but she just told me up front she was sick.

My buddy also told me he saw her with another guy, and he thinks she is a prostitute. Should I just ask her out or wait for my friend to ask her out first, how would you proceed?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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1-2 word replies=no to low interest. Females talk a lot, especially to men they want. Novels...
 
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Asked her out. Sent this msg: "Are you free in the new few days to have a Starbucks"
Her: I'm still sick. Maybe lying but who knows.

I will try to reach her again in 3-4 days.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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escaleraroyal said:
Asked her out. Sent this msg: "Are you free in the new few days to have a Starbucks"
Her: I'm still sick. Maybe lying but who knows.

I will try to reach her again in 3-4 days.
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Drop it lol. Find diffrent plates
 
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escaleraroyal said:
Should I just ask her out or wait for my friend to ask her out first, how would you proceed?
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I would do whatever, but be detached from the outcomes. If you can't genuinely be detached then you should just consider it to be nothing and move on. Sending messages takes a couple of seconds, the problems only start when you care about getting her. If you don't care then it's just a few seconds spent, if nothing comes from it then you won't feel a loss because you never gave a fvck to begin with.

Indifference is your friend in situations like this.
 
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escaleraroyal said:
My buddy and I # closed same girl. I Did 2-3 weeks ago, still working on how to get her out. My buddy # closed her today in the same shopping mall.
She doesn't say much in text, you know the one/two words reply. I only asked her out one time but she said she is more free on Wednesday then the next Wednesday came but she just told me up front she was sick.

My buddy also told me he saw her with another guy, and he thinks she is a prostitute. Should I just ask her out or wait for my friend to ask her out first, how would you proceed?
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This thread is false advertising. I thought based on the title, this was a e brag about a devil's triangle /Eiffel tower /DP lololol.



Why date a potential prostitute?

1 or 2 word text = troll & & & #next her!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm still not sure if she is a prostitute. I saw her SnapChat and she has panties on and on her bed taking selfies.
I'm trying to get her out. Today is my 3rd attempt to ask her out. If she doesn't want to I will delete her. Waiting for her answer.
 
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