I don't know any girls. I rely solely off of cold approaches. I'll go and chat one up and exchange names and such, but I'll forget her name and I'll have a 10% chance of ever seeing her again. I know you guys are like get her #, but I can't ask for a number within a 5 minute convo. Also I'm bad with names, so fb is out.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My biggest problem with girls that might be the door
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Jplaya, I see that you live in my state of Tennessee. If I run into you, I'll help you cold approach. Keep at it, and don't be negative about things. You have to get A LOT sorted out consciously before you can start getting regular (Day Game) success. I'm going out a lot here in West TN trying to thrash some of my sticking points. And I'm still not getting numbers much, but I keep working. Good luck!
Kupid Diggs
Don Juan
JPlaya said:
Ugh Tennessee. I stay in Tennessee too, I'm outside of Memphis. I'm a black male also. I don't get the fascination black guys have with white girls. They've always been "meh" in my eyes. Sure I'd bone some, but I never have went out of my way to date a white girl. That being said, about a year ago I was visiting my brother who was going to UT-Knoxville at the time. We were outside at his apartment complex shooting hoops, and 3 different sets of white girls came up to us. They were pretty friendly and seemed down to kick it. My brother actually ended up sleeping with one of the girls later in the month.
The best advice I can give you, go hang out and pick up hobbies that a lot of white women do. Like jogging or running. I did a 5k run the other day for charity and there were a good chunk of white women there. Be creative and be approachable. Also, you won't get any white girls dressing like Waka Flaka, unless you play football for UT-Konx.
If you really want the white girls to flock to you, make friends with some UT-Knoxville football players and start hanging with them.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I have no problem talking to them because I was born and raised in a white area. I've just been shy most of my life and I'm paying the price for it right now. Thanks, I'm going to get a haircut and go around campus looking for activities that girls flock to.
I'm not black, but from what I've observed at nightclubs in Jackson, TN, being black and getting with white girls there isn't such an improbability. Then again, Jackson also has a lot of black people there.Kupid Diggs said:
LOL at dressing like Flaka.
I'd like to check out UTK's campus sometime. I went to UTM for 5 years, and there are so many attractive women there just walking around. I'll be going to visit again shortly.
Kupid Diggs
Don Juan
They have night clubs in Jackson??? Does Jackson have any good lounges or bars?Deicide said:
I lived in Nashville for 2 years to finish college between 2008-2010. I'd say Nashville is the most diverse city in Tennessee. There are a lot of immigrants in Nashville, and there is always usually something going on. I've never been to Martin, TN. I might have to hit up UTM one day..
Yes, The Mix Factory and Taboo are two of the nightclubs I know of in Jackson(I've only went to the former). I've never been to any bars or lounges there. I usually go to Jackson to do Day Game. I'd like to go back to Nashville for a trip. I went with my family a little while ago but it's hard for me to cold approach with them around. I think I'm spending the night at UTM later on this week.Kupid Diggs said:
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
The reason I think I'm so successful now when it comes to women is because I don't care. I'm 21 years old and I am not in my prime. A guy's prime is usually after graduating college and living on his own with his own funds. I don't complain if I know I'm not good with certain things. I just fake like I am and eventually I will learn how to do it. Keep doing things your uncomfortable with so you will be comfortable with it. Keep approaching woman and don't worry about result. Just keep doing it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.