Divorced w 3
Master Don Juan
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This guy isn’t your friend.
I personally can’t understand what would cause you to ever be in this persons presence again, and that thought has nothing to do with it being a threat to your relationship. You are clearly hurting for a good social system and I am truly sorry to hear that. You can deepen other relationships with people or forge new ones.
As for your relationship, next time your girlfriend intimates that she’s seeking out someone else’s attention, if it were me, I would very simply mention that to you personally, this is not the behavior you have in mind for your relationship, do it while you’re dropping her off that evening, don’t accept any sort of excuses or rationale, and then you simply take a few days off in complete radio silence. Don’t tell her you’re going silent, just do it. Freeze her ass out like an Eskimo. You will get feedback in her reaction. I can’t promise the outcome will make you feel better but you will be better off for it.
Alternate option, get a side chick asap, and then just run this a little longer and you can move on to your side piece and that will smooth it over. I think the harder way is more fulfilling because you’ll grow but no harm on this either.
I personally can’t understand what would cause you to ever be in this persons presence again, and that thought has nothing to do with it being a threat to your relationship. You are clearly hurting for a good social system and I am truly sorry to hear that. You can deepen other relationships with people or forge new ones.
As for your relationship, next time your girlfriend intimates that she’s seeking out someone else’s attention, if it were me, I would very simply mention that to you personally, this is not the behavior you have in mind for your relationship, do it while you’re dropping her off that evening, don’t accept any sort of excuses or rationale, and then you simply take a few days off in complete radio silence. Don’t tell her you’re going silent, just do it. Freeze her ass out like an Eskimo. You will get feedback in her reaction. I can’t promise the outcome will make you feel better but you will be better off for it.
Alternate option, get a side chick asap, and then just run this a little longer and you can move on to your side piece and that will smooth it over. I think the harder way is more fulfilling because you’ll grow but no harm on this either.