"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My ambitions keeps pushing my mind to full throttle...

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Eaglecreek

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Hey guys,

It's been a while since I last posted, normally I just post on the don juan forum, but the following stuff I'm stuck on is more for the maturer people.

You see, I'm a 22 year old guy, I'm in college and percieving my dreams (and already accomplished some of them). I'm pretty good with the ladies and life is great. However my ambitions are EXTREMLY high...

I want to do something great with my life... Something super... I used to be such a lazy loser who never wanted to do anything for school or anything else... But now I just want to keep learning... I want to unlock my true potential... I never used to read, now I just keep looking for these intresting books! It's so strange!

It's keeping me up at night, I can't sleep before 2am, I just keep thinking and thinking about what to do next. What is the next strategic move so I can build my empire and save the fvcking world...

I know it sounds stupid but I can't help myself... It's like there's a radio in my head and I can't turn it off... Like a bloodlust for knowledge and a need to prove myself to everyone!

(Maybe I should find myself a mentor, so I can learn faster...)

I know there isen't really a question to this but can anybody guide me, because I'm in the dark here and I have nobody else I can turn to for guidance (I asked my dad once and he just laughed at it)...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desert Fox

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hmm do you happen to be from belgium?

is credos here your friend?

are you the guy that wants to create a world where you are the puppet master?

are you THIS GUY: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172636

If you are, props to you man. I'm very similar to you. Building my empire slowly but surely. Nobody expects something great from me...they want me to fail. They want US to fail. Why? So they won't be lonely. That's why.

Anyways man, feel free to PM me and we can talk ideas and whatnot.
 
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Eaglecreek

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Yeh that's me...

He didn't tell me he posted that :nervous:

Btw: This is not about power... This is about achieving something in my life, opposite of what some people think of me
 
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Credos

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Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Evzone

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PM me; it seems like we have a lot in common. I won't have time until after Saturday to get back to you, but let's chat.
 
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It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
 
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Credos said:
Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
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Effing hilarious.
That's why you always have to be careful with what you post here.


And to Eaglecreek, just go with the flow and try to fulfill everything you want to do. You seem to be on the right track.

Can we call you Puppet Master now?
 
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Eaglecreek

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Kailex said:
Can we call you Puppet Master now?
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Call me whatever you want, I don't really care :)

tobylikestennis said:
you should exercise
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Exercise how...

Plinco said:
It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
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I met some older guys (40+, they were in my kind of business, taught me some stuff on excavator crawlers, mainly hydraulics) who told me they had no need to prove themselfs to anybody
So I guess not everybody has that erge to prove themself...
However, I do see it as a positive thing to have some ambitions in my life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julius_Seizeher

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It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
 
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BananaSmile

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theres are thousands of books you can read about this stuff
but its better when you observe people and figure it our for yourself
but reading is definitely good :D
 
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Tesl

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Sounds like you are over thinking things here.

So you are mega super ambitious. So what? You can't stop thinking, why is that a problem? Let your mind do that, and once you finally settle on something you want to do, then go make that happen.

I really don't understand what you are complaining about. I'm way ambitious myself and am achieving a lot these days, but I don't have an inner struggle with that.
 
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Julius_Seizeher said:
It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
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I've started reading it now, thanks for the tip:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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