"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My ambitions keeps pushing my mind to full throttle...

Eaglecreek

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Hey guys,

It's been a while since I last posted, normally I just post on the don juan forum, but the following stuff I'm stuck on is more for the maturer people.

You see, I'm a 22 year old guy, I'm in college and percieving my dreams (and already accomplished some of them). I'm pretty good with the ladies and life is great. However my ambitions are EXTREMLY high...

I want to do something great with my life... Something super... I used to be such a lazy loser who never wanted to do anything for school or anything else... But now I just want to keep learning... I want to unlock my true potential... I never used to read, now I just keep looking for these intresting books! It's so strange!

It's keeping me up at night, I can't sleep before 2am, I just keep thinking and thinking about what to do next. What is the next strategic move so I can build my empire and save the fvcking world...

I know it sounds stupid but I can't help myself... It's like there's a radio in my head and I can't turn it off... Like a bloodlust for knowledge and a need to prove myself to everyone!

(Maybe I should find myself a mentor, so I can learn faster...)

I know there isen't really a question to this but can anybody guide me, because I'm in the dark here and I have nobody else I can turn to for guidance (I asked my dad once and he just laughed at it)...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Desert Fox

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hmm do you happen to be from belgium?

is credos here your friend?

are you the guy that wants to create a world where you are the puppet master?

are you THIS GUY: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172636

If you are, props to you man. I'm very similar to you. Building my empire slowly but surely. Nobody expects something great from me...they want me to fail. They want US to fail. Why? So they won't be lonely. That's why.

Anyways man, feel free to PM me and we can talk ideas and whatnot.
 

Eaglecreek

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Yeh that's me...

He didn't tell me he posted that :nervous:

Btw: This is not about power... This is about achieving something in my life, opposite of what some people think of me
 

Credos

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Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Evzone

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PM me; it seems like we have a lot in common. I won't have time until after Saturday to get back to you, but let's chat.
 

Plinco

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It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
 

Kailex

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Credos said:
Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
Effing hilarious.
That's why you always have to be careful with what you post here.


And to Eaglecreek, just go with the flow and try to fulfill everything you want to do. You seem to be on the right track.

Can we call you Puppet Master now?
 

Eaglecreek

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Kailex said:
Can we call you Puppet Master now?
Call me whatever you want, I don't really care :)

tobylikestennis said:
you should exercise
Exercise how...

Plinco said:
It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
I met some older guys (40+, they were in my kind of business, taught me some stuff on excavator crawlers, mainly hydraulics) who told me they had no need to prove themselfs to anybody
So I guess not everybody has that erge to prove themself...
However, I do see it as a positive thing to have some ambitions in my life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julius_Seizeher

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It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
 

BananaSmile

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theres are thousands of books you can read about this stuff
but its better when you observe people and figure it our for yourself
but reading is definitely good :D
 

Tesl

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Sounds like you are over thinking things here.

So you are mega super ambitious. So what? You can't stop thinking, why is that a problem? Let your mind do that, and once you finally settle on something you want to do, then go make that happen.

I really don't understand what you are complaining about. I'm way ambitious myself and am achieving a lot these days, but I don't have an inner struggle with that.
 

Eaglecreek

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Julius_Seizeher said:
It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
I've started reading it now, thanks for the tip:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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