"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My ambitions keeps pushing my mind to full throttle...

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Hey guys,

It's been a while since I last posted, normally I just post on the don juan forum, but the following stuff I'm stuck on is more for the maturer people.

You see, I'm a 22 year old guy, I'm in college and percieving my dreams (and already accomplished some of them). I'm pretty good with the ladies and life is great. However my ambitions are EXTREMLY high...

I want to do something great with my life... Something super... I used to be such a lazy loser who never wanted to do anything for school or anything else... But now I just want to keep learning... I want to unlock my true potential... I never used to read, now I just keep looking for these intresting books! It's so strange!

It's keeping me up at night, I can't sleep before 2am, I just keep thinking and thinking about what to do next. What is the next strategic move so I can build my empire and save the fvcking world...

I know it sounds stupid but I can't help myself... It's like there's a radio in my head and I can't turn it off... Like a bloodlust for knowledge and a need to prove myself to everyone!

(Maybe I should find myself a mentor, so I can learn faster...)

I know there isen't really a question to this but can anybody guide me, because I'm in the dark here and I have nobody else I can turn to for guidance (I asked my dad once and he just laughed at it)...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desert Fox

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hmm do you happen to be from belgium?

is credos here your friend?

are you the guy that wants to create a world where you are the puppet master?

are you THIS GUY: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172636

If you are, props to you man. I'm very similar to you. Building my empire slowly but surely. Nobody expects something great from me...they want me to fail. They want US to fail. Why? So they won't be lonely. That's why.

Anyways man, feel free to PM me and we can talk ideas and whatnot.
 
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Yeh that's me...

He didn't tell me he posted that :nervous:

Btw: This is not about power... This is about achieving something in my life, opposite of what some people think of me
 
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Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evzone

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PM me; it seems like we have a lot in common. I won't have time until after Saturday to get back to you, but let's chat.
 
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It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
 
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Credos said:
Yeh sorry about that eagle,

Congratz on your internship btw
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Effing hilarious.
That's why you always have to be careful with what you post here.


And to Eaglecreek, just go with the flow and try to fulfill everything you want to do. You seem to be on the right track.

Can we call you Puppet Master now?
 
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Eaglecreek

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Kailex said:
Can we call you Puppet Master now?
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Call me whatever you want, I don't really care :)

tobylikestennis said:
you should exercise
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Exercise how...

Plinco said:
It does not stop as you get older either, despite what others say.
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I met some older guys (40+, they were in my kind of business, taught me some stuff on excavator crawlers, mainly hydraulics) who told me they had no need to prove themselfs to anybody
So I guess not everybody has that erge to prove themself...
However, I do see it as a positive thing to have some ambitions in my life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Julius_Seizeher

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It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
 
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BananaSmile

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theres are thousands of books you can read about this stuff
but its better when you observe people and figure it our for yourself
but reading is definitely good :D
 
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Sounds like you are over thinking things here.

So you are mega super ambitious. So what? You can't stop thinking, why is that a problem? Let your mind do that, and once you finally settle on something you want to do, then go make that happen.

I really don't understand what you are complaining about. I'm way ambitious myself and am achieving a lot these days, but I don't have an inner struggle with that.
 
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Julius_Seizeher said:
It's time for you to read the ultimate, end-all book on ambition, The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill.
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I've started reading it now, thanks for the tip:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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