"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mastacheef
Don Juan
me and my homies use to play this in our little "jam band" haha it was so fun i miss those days but yes metallica.. makes me... wet.. ahhh wasn't their new cd by WB suppose to come out like 4 years ago lmao?
After the last album, I gave up on them.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zbuk96kW9LM
WTF were they thinking?!
My dog can sing better than that.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zbuk96kW9LM
WTF were they thinking?!
My dog can sing better than that.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Aboleo said:
You're mom can sing better than that. lol! :crackup:
I thought that video was badass!
the only metallica songs i like are 'one' and 'sanitarium' (otherwise im a megadeth fan)
One is what put them on the map. i still think its probably the most powerful metal song ever produced.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5BoQ1qPPRs&feature=related
one of the few songs that is even cooler live also!
One is what put them on the map. i still think its probably the most powerful metal song ever produced.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5BoQ1qPPRs&feature=related
one of the few songs that is even cooler live also!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
Slayer Rules!!!!!!!!!!! Is all i can say.
No, I said "my dog" whats the problem, got pig**** in your vision? Besides... I never knew my mom. She left before I was born.:moon:ValleyDJing said:
Metallica (Kirk Hammit aside) is just a bunch of burnt-out fairies sitting around group therapy sessions b!tching at one another like sorority girls. If you don't believe me, go watch "Some Kind of Monster". Pathetic!
Long live Megadeth!:rockon:
Dave Mustaine rules. Down with Metallica (post 1997, anyways... I actually liked some stuff on 'Load' And 'Reload'... 'Garage Inc' was cool, but it was a cover album and does not count). St. Anger sucked! :cuss:
ValleyDJing said:
I was talking about the music, brother. If you could even call it that...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats impossible.Aboleo said:
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ExcelNPrevail said:
Pure natural adrenalin is all I can say! Former pit survivor many years ago...madness. It was this 'bloody' song too that gave me a black eye at the concert.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkaU-ZG8_lM&feature=related
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
You gotta hate to see a "Your Mom" joke go south like that. My bad dude.Aboleo said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lolz! Good catch PK!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.