"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mastacheef
Don Juan
me and my homies use to play this in our little "jam band" haha it was so fun i miss those days but yes metallica.. makes me... wet.. ahhh wasn't their new cd by WB suppose to come out like 4 years ago lmao?
After the last album, I gave up on them.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zbuk96kW9LM
WTF were they thinking?!
My dog can sing better than that.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zbuk96kW9LM
WTF were they thinking?!
My dog can sing better than that.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Aboleo said:
You're mom can sing better than that. lol! :crackup:
I thought that video was badass!
the only metallica songs i like are 'one' and 'sanitarium' (otherwise im a megadeth fan)
One is what put them on the map. i still think its probably the most powerful metal song ever produced.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5BoQ1qPPRs&feature=related
one of the few songs that is even cooler live also!
One is what put them on the map. i still think its probably the most powerful metal song ever produced.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5BoQ1qPPRs&feature=related
one of the few songs that is even cooler live also!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
Slayer Rules!!!!!!!!!!! Is all i can say.
No, I said "my dog" whats the problem, got pig**** in your vision? Besides... I never knew my mom. She left before I was born.:moon:ValleyDJing said:
Metallica (Kirk Hammit aside) is just a bunch of burnt-out fairies sitting around group therapy sessions b!tching at one another like sorority girls. If you don't believe me, go watch "Some Kind of Monster". Pathetic!
Long live Megadeth!:rockon:
Dave Mustaine rules. Down with Metallica (post 1997, anyways... I actually liked some stuff on 'Load' And 'Reload'... 'Garage Inc' was cool, but it was a cover album and does not count). St. Anger sucked! :cuss:
ValleyDJing said:
I was talking about the music, brother. If you could even call it that...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats impossible.Aboleo said:
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ExcelNPrevail said:
Pure natural adrenalin is all I can say! Former pit survivor many years ago...madness. It was this 'bloody' song too that gave me a black eye at the concert.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkaU-ZG8_lM&feature=related
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
You gotta hate to see a "Your Mom" joke go south like that. My bad dude.Aboleo said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lolz! Good catch PK!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.