al77
Master Don Juan
It has been more than 3 days and still feel very sore after a workout. Is there any kind of "medicine" against it except rest?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by al77
It has been more than 3 days and still feel very sore after a workout. Is there any kind of "medicine" against it except rest?
yea being a man thats realy help full well done!!!Originally posted by mrRuckus
being a man.
True, but its good to be sore. So when your muscles repair they are even stronge r next time.Originally posted by vanwilder
protein
glutamine
rest
food
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Update: it has been a week already and still I don't feel I can go to the gym and lift. Still sore..Originally posted by vanwilder
protein
glutamine
rest
food
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It is odd, but it feels like soreness not injury. One week and still is not healed. Hm.Originally posted by snintel
If it's been a week then I'd be concerned. It's usually healed by 2 days.
How do you guys deal with always being sore?