"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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muscle hardness: a few questions

dj ben2

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ok, ive been training for quite some time now and have put on a bit of mass and have the dry muscly look that ive been after for ages but my question is when i tense i look nice and hard but when you squeeze my muscles they arent really rock hard like you would think. yet my training buddy who is the same size as me when you squeeze his muscles they are like granite.
which brings me to my 2 questions. 1. why arent my muscles that hard and how can i make them hard and 2. what does it mean when your muscles are harder (ie. does that mean you are stronger?)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rampage1

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you probably have a higher bodyfat percentage than your friend mate.
 

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Basically what it means is that 1) your friend has lower intramuscular fat content than you, and 2) His fibers are packed with more contractile protein filaments, kind of like a stuffed sock. Two guys could have similar muscle fiber volume, but one may be more fluid and the other may be more 'solid' protein matter.
 

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Colossus said:
Basically what it means is that 1) your friend has lower intramuscular fat content than you, and 2) His fibers are packed with more contractile protein filaments, kind of like a stuffed sock. Two guys could have similar muscle fiber volume, but one may be more fluid and the other may be more 'solid' protein matter.
so basically i have more water retention then him?
 

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Once you done lefting you would want to eat protein but not to much protein. sometimes when I am done i just drank a cup of soy milk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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