"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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muscle hardness: a few questions

dj ben2

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ok, ive been training for quite some time now and have put on a bit of mass and have the dry muscly look that ive been after for ages but my question is when i tense i look nice and hard but when you squeeze my muscles they arent really rock hard like you would think. yet my training buddy who is the same size as me when you squeeze his muscles they are like granite.
which brings me to my 2 questions. 1. why arent my muscles that hard and how can i make them hard and 2. what does it mean when your muscles are harder (ie. does that mean you are stronger?)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you probably have a higher bodyfat percentage than your friend mate.
 

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Basically what it means is that 1) your friend has lower intramuscular fat content than you, and 2) His fibers are packed with more contractile protein filaments, kind of like a stuffed sock. Two guys could have similar muscle fiber volume, but one may be more fluid and the other may be more 'solid' protein matter.
 

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Colossus said:
Basically what it means is that 1) your friend has lower intramuscular fat content than you, and 2) His fibers are packed with more contractile protein filaments, kind of like a stuffed sock. Two guys could have similar muscle fiber volume, but one may be more fluid and the other may be more 'solid' protein matter.
so basically i have more water retention then him?
 

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Once you done lefting you would want to eat protein but not to much protein. sometimes when I am done i just drank a cup of soy milk.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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