"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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okay, so I have this problem. so I'm with the girl, and we'll be making out, feeling each other up, it gets hot, i'll be hard as rock, but if something, even as short as 30 seconds, stops the action, for example quick important phone call or time to get the condom or turn off the stove or WHATEVER, and I get soft, even if we go at it again pretty quickly like 30 seconds later, if I go soft I can't get hard again

this can be embarassing, any suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get into the moment...man, you got mental troubles here....you're focusing too much on NOT her, when your attention should be to get turned on as much as you want.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Docs said:
Get into the moment...man, you got mental troubles here....you're focusing too much on NOT her, when your attention should be to get turned on as much as you want.
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this might be true, and if it is, i mean, what can I REALLY do?
 
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Sometimes it could be as simple as disciplining yourself to stay in the moment, and to not let yourself worry about 'performance' (which leads to self-sabotage)...

Other times, it may be more complicated... like you're a fat slob who can't stay up because after 3 minutes of a hard-on, your body needs to distribute your gravy-like blood plasma elsewhere or else you get gout and start turning blue, thus you become a fat azz blue ball with blue balls.

Other than that, have you tried the Jelq method? Look up Jelq techniques, see if that helps. Penis exercises, yeaaaah baby!
 
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You're young, so I'm going to assume it's mental. You might be stressing out. Make sure you feel comfortable with the girl, and realize that this kind of stuff happens to every guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FBA808 said:
no, it's not like that at all
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You'd be suprised at how horny you get after keepin your hands off the wang for a week or two.
 
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