"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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okay, so I have this problem. so I'm with the girl, and we'll be making out, feeling each other up, it gets hot, i'll be hard as rock, but if something, even as short as 30 seconds, stops the action, for example quick important phone call or time to get the condom or turn off the stove or WHATEVER, and I get soft, even if we go at it again pretty quickly like 30 seconds later, if I go soft I can't get hard again

this can be embarassing, any suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get into the moment...man, you got mental troubles here....you're focusing too much on NOT her, when your attention should be to get turned on as much as you want.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs said:
Get into the moment...man, you got mental troubles here....you're focusing too much on NOT her, when your attention should be to get turned on as much as you want.
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this might be true, and if it is, i mean, what can I REALLY do?
 
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Sometimes it could be as simple as disciplining yourself to stay in the moment, and to not let yourself worry about 'performance' (which leads to self-sabotage)...

Other times, it may be more complicated... like you're a fat slob who can't stay up because after 3 minutes of a hard-on, your body needs to distribute your gravy-like blood plasma elsewhere or else you get gout and start turning blue, thus you become a fat azz blue ball with blue balls.

Other than that, have you tried the Jelq method? Look up Jelq techniques, see if that helps. Penis exercises, yeaaaah baby!
 
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You're young, so I'm going to assume it's mental. You might be stressing out. Make sure you feel comfortable with the girl, and realize that this kind of stuff happens to every guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FBA808 said:
no, it's not like that at all
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You'd be suprised at how horny you get after keepin your hands off the wang for a week or two.
 
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