diablo
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Evil-Rom
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I would've thought these kind of "online chatlog dating" threads should be closed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
bubbling_dj
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Thanks a ton diablo...
Well its funny why people bother...to post .. when they actually dont want to read it...to some of the nice people like DJ Legion..thanks for your suggestions...i will try to format it better the next time...and to some of the smart ones like check mate uk...i cant think of a line where i said i love her...but i am sorry i forgot to write on the top " please read while you are not drunk"..by the way...the end result of the convo is . i got her number...and if u read it again..when you are not drunk...you will realise she was the one who said..she would like to meet up sometime...But anyways...take care ..
Well its funny why people bother...to post .. when they actually dont want to read it...to some of the nice people like DJ Legion..thanks for your suggestions...i will try to format it better the next time...and to some of the smart ones like check mate uk...i cant think of a line where i said i love her...but i am sorry i forgot to write on the top " please read while you are not drunk"..by the way...the end result of the convo is . i got her number...and if u read it again..when you are not drunk...you will realise she was the one who said..she would like to meet up sometime...But anyways...take care ..
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