diablo
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Msn chat log - what ya say OO..
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Evil-Rom
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I would've thought these kind of "online chatlog dating" threads should be closed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
bubbling_dj
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Thanks a ton diablo...
Well its funny why people bother...to post .. when they actually dont want to read it...to some of the nice people like DJ Legion..thanks for your suggestions...i will try to format it better the next time...and to some of the smart ones like check mate uk...i cant think of a line where i said i love her...but i am sorry i forgot to write on the top " please read while you are not drunk"..by the way...the end result of the convo is . i got her number...and if u read it again..when you are not drunk...you will realise she was the one who said..she would like to meet up sometime...But anyways...take care ..
Well its funny why people bother...to post .. when they actually dont want to read it...to some of the nice people like DJ Legion..thanks for your suggestions...i will try to format it better the next time...and to some of the smart ones like check mate uk...i cant think of a line where i said i love her...but i am sorry i forgot to write on the top " please read while you are not drunk"..by the way...the end result of the convo is . i got her number...and if u read it again..when you are not drunk...you will realise she was the one who said..she would like to meet up sometime...But anyways...take care ..
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