"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving to fast

Kali

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Situation is me and this girl been talking for a while and we do like each other, its just that things are moving too fast i think its actually scarying her. any advice on this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Igetit!

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We need more information. How long have the two of you been talking to each other? What kinds of things do you talk about? Have you been out on a date with her? What are the signs and signals that make you think that things are moving too fast?

Give us something to work with man.
 

lordson

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i was kinda there not long ago

just be natural, and let things flow, don't worry about it too much

it worked out fine for me, and will do for you
 
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