"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Moving to fast

Kali

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Situation is me and this girl been talking for a while and we do like each other, its just that things are moving too fast i think its actually scarying her. any advice on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Igetit!

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We need more information. How long have the two of you been talking to each other? What kinds of things do you talk about? Have you been out on a date with her? What are the signs and signals that make you think that things are moving too fast?

Give us something to work with man.
 

lordson

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i was kinda there not long ago

just be natural, and let things flow, don't worry about it too much

it worked out fine for me, and will do for you
 
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