"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moving to fast

Kali

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Situation is me and this girl been talking for a while and we do like each other, its just that things are moving too fast i think its actually scarying her. any advice on this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Igetit!

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We need more information. How long have the two of you been talking to each other? What kinds of things do you talk about? Have you been out on a date with her? What are the signs and signals that make you think that things are moving too fast?

Give us something to work with man.
 

lordson

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i was kinda there not long ago

just be natural, and let things flow, don't worry about it too much

it worked out fine for me, and will do for you
 
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