"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Moving to fast

Kali

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Situation is me and this girl been talking for a while and we do like each other, its just that things are moving too fast i think its actually scarying her. any advice on this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Igetit!

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We need more information. How long have the two of you been talking to each other? What kinds of things do you talk about? Have you been out on a date with her? What are the signs and signals that make you think that things are moving too fast?

Give us something to work with man.
 

lordson

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i was kinda there not long ago

just be natural, and let things flow, don't worry about it too much

it worked out fine for me, and will do for you
 
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