Von
Master Don Juan
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Hey Augustus,Von,
Step back for a minute and look at what you’ve written here:
She’s “massively stubborn“. This is a red flag.
She doesn’t believe in contraception. How are you not getting her pregnant now?
Again, she doesn’t believe in contraception. Dude, she’s going to wind up getting pregnant in less than a year. You understand that right? And, on top of that you imply that you’re working 80 hours a week.
You need to give yourself a reality check.
-Augustus-
On it right now. I know what you mean. Reykhel nailed it
All these things, me and the current LTR are very well aware.
She's one of those ''virgin until marriage for religious reasons''
The girl quality and value are not in question. Also her stubborness is quite appealing to me.
Reykel wrote about these ''dependants boys'' I used to be soo much one of them. Both parents worked 80 hours a week and were quite absent and bpd on many issues. Eventually, they got an office from home and they were too much there lol.
I turned out alright althought a bit late in my development.
Wedding, Kids, Work Schedule, etc... are none of the issue. Her work allow her 2 years of full paid motherly leaves per kids etc. etc. I can work from home and be flexible.
My questions are internal and about self-doubt (I can be quite a woman, since raised by strong female crazy mother):
1. Are we on the same page ?
2. I don't feel ready for kids etc.
3. I grow so much and there is so many ''personnal things'' I wanna do first.
4. Will I succeed ? Or be a failure
Every day, every month, every year... I am getting better and more improved.. My discipline, routine and success keeps going up and up. People notice and keep saying how I ''change-improve''... so my growth and evolution is far from over.... but I know my limits: Stress management and priorities tends to go all over the place once in a while with me.
The girl and her value are fine, we talk about this and she said she was ready to ''wait'' for kids (than on the engagement... suddenly she can't track her cycle and errors might come in). We ''engaged''...
I've no intention of ''adapting my frame'' ... her work schedule is crazier than mine but her ''future'' is more guaranteed... My income/career/business depends on my sales and education... And right now in Wealth Management, wealthmanagers/brokers are dying left and right. Mine is family business.. I joined partnered with my mom so handling all the clients, management, financial planning, human ressources, sales and growth while studying 40 hours a week, dancing 5 hours, gym 19hours, personnal reading 2 hours, sleep at 7 hours a day.
If wealthy people can handle it ... no reason I can't (I know a nurse and fire fighter... 3 kids, 58 years olds... the nurse is real beauty and look 30 like her husband... worth1.5 millions in investment funds, 700 000$ house, around 50 000$ each in pension funds yearly until death ) ... when I was in their file... got quite the excitement.Lol.
Anyhow, she's quiet, calm, been great support in helping me understand my adhd-hyperactivity-stress etc.., and his super low-maintenance.
My fears are like I wrote. And it's nuts!
Worst case: She's the right girl at the wrong time lol or I dodge a bullet. My life goes ahead and forward
Conclusion: I've never felt better about myself and been more succesful and powerful, active than now. It's all due to me and some brainstorm with her and my family. I do intend on keeping this success, power and growth continue and face the challenges.
It's amazing we finally have a ''Moving In - LTR official thread here''
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