Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Movie Theater Handjob - how to escalate

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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kidkurious said:
Next time, I'm gonna try returning the favor and play with her **** and actually try to finger her - i'm afraid her moaning will get us kicked out though.
How do you think I should go about doing this?
Are you really dense? or you really have no clue what you are doing?!

Its time to take her home and fvck her and not go to a movie theater and attempt to get to third base. This girl is horny and you should already be scoring BJ's left and right.

Oh and its pretty easy to get handjobs and BJ's in a movie Theater. You just pick a crappy movie that no one is watching, you go to a late show on a weekday so their will be less people and you pick the back corner of the theater.
 

john paul

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yama600rr said:
damn bro... are you gay or something? she's wants to jack u off and you're pullin her hand away? maybe you would feel better if its a guy doing it right?... i dont know what to tell you besides that youre a loser!
I dont think thats nesessary. and defenently not useful to him. Dont reply to threads with pointless posts.




DJDamage is right. Dont go to the movie theatre anymore. Its time to get her to your house. Both you and her will be much more confortable, which will get rid of that mood killer, hesitation.
 

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don't take her to a movie next time dude, she obviously isn't in it for that, she's a virgin and wants some ****...

this is what i'd do, just because it's my style..

PRETEND you're taking her to a movie, blindfold her when you're in the car, pull the car up in the HOTEL (not motel, get somewhere decent) carpark, go & get your room key, then go & get her & only take the blindfold off when you're in the lift. refuse to touch her in it. then put it back on before the doors open on your floor. if she resists, tell her you're not moving an inch further until she puts it on. then take it off just as you open the room door. she'll melt. guarantee you'll get plenty more from there on.

movies are crap dates anyway as you don't talk - fine if you're already together & just want to hold her but, otherwise...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vicious_fishes said:
don't take her to a movie next time dude, she obviously isn't in it for that, she's a virgin and wants some ****...

this is what i'd do, just because it's my style..

PRETEND you're taking her to a movie, blindfold her when you're in the car, pull the car up in the HOTEL (not motel, get somewhere decent) carpark, go & get your room key, then go & get her & only take the blindfold off when you're in the lift. refuse to touch her in it. then put it back on before the doors open on your floor. if she resists, tell her you're not moving an inch further until she puts it on. then take it off just as you open the room door. she'll melt. guarantee you'll get plenty more from there on.

movies are crap dates anyway as you don't talk - fine if you're already together & just want to hold her but, otherwise...
Does anyone else think that this is the stupidest fvcking idea they have ever herd of. Is this really your style? Has this ever really worked for you on a 2nd or 3rd date with a woman you have not slept with. If it has, I bet she thought it was somewhat lame. It probably sounded real cool to you when you typed it up (taking charge, mystery, spontaneous) but in reality it is a lot of work and a lame way of going about getting some ass.

No need to do all this stupid SHlT she is already giving you all the buying signals. You just need to find a private place and escalate (1 step at a time because she is a virgin). No need for cheap theatrics.
 

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amoka said:
kidkurious, How old are you?
early twenties

i'm gonna go to her house next
she's a musician, and i myself play piano, so i'll invite myself over to "check out her instruments".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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