sandman6991
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Best. Thread. EVER!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Movie Theater Handjob - how to escalate
- Thread starter kidkurious
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are you really dense? or you really have no clue what you are doing?!kidkurious said:
Its time to take her home and fvck her and not go to a movie theater and attempt to get to third base. This girl is horny and you should already be scoring BJ's left and right.
Oh and its pretty easy to get handjobs and BJ's in a movie Theater. You just pick a crappy movie that no one is watching, you go to a late show on a weekday so their will be less people and you pick the back corner of the theater.
john paul
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I dont think thats nesessary. and defenently not useful to him. Dont reply to threads with pointless posts.yama600rr said:
DJDamage is right. Dont go to the movie theatre anymore. Its time to get her to your house. Both you and her will be much more confortable, which will get rid of that mood killer, hesitation.
vicious_fishes
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don't take her to a movie next time dude, she obviously isn't in it for that, she's a virgin and wants some ****...
this is what i'd do, just because it's my style..
PRETEND you're taking her to a movie, blindfold her when you're in the car, pull the car up in the HOTEL (not motel, get somewhere decent) carpark, go & get your room key, then go & get her & only take the blindfold off when you're in the lift. refuse to touch her in it. then put it back on before the doors open on your floor. if she resists, tell her you're not moving an inch further until she puts it on. then take it off just as you open the room door. she'll melt. guarantee you'll get plenty more from there on.
movies are crap dates anyway as you don't talk - fine if you're already together & just want to hold her but, otherwise...
this is what i'd do, just because it's my style..
PRETEND you're taking her to a movie, blindfold her when you're in the car, pull the car up in the HOTEL (not motel, get somewhere decent) carpark, go & get your room key, then go & get her & only take the blindfold off when you're in the lift. refuse to touch her in it. then put it back on before the doors open on your floor. if she resists, tell her you're not moving an inch further until she puts it on. then take it off just as you open the room door. she'll melt. guarantee you'll get plenty more from there on.
movies are crap dates anyway as you don't talk - fine if you're already together & just want to hold her but, otherwise...
MacAvoy
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You need to take some lessons from this guykidkurious said:
and start listening to DJDamage, stop going to a theatre and bring her to your house to watch a movie.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daddy The Pimp
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. Everytime i see it , i enjoy more and more MacAvoy
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I've always actually preferred watching Rodney CarringtonDaddy The Pimp said:
**warning not suitable for work, mild nudity**
Brandonc662
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Does anyone else think that this is the stupidest fvcking idea they have ever herd of. Is this really your style? Has this ever really worked for you on a 2nd or 3rd date with a woman you have not slept with. If it has, I bet she thought it was somewhat lame. It probably sounded real cool to you when you typed it up (taking charge, mystery, spontaneous) but in reality it is a lot of work and a lame way of going about getting some ass.vicious_fishes said:
No need to do all this stupid SHlT she is already giving you all the buying signals. You just need to find a private place and escalate (1 step at a time because she is a virgin). No need for cheap theatrics.
kidkurious
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early twentiesamoka said:
i'm gonna go to her house next
she's a musician, and i myself play piano, so i'll invite myself over to "check out her instruments".
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.