She's also a huge *****. So finally my DJ skills pay off, and I got her. But I don't want to lose her. So I figured to make sure she doesn't cheat on me (because chances are she'll cheat on me), I'd cheat on her. How can I keep her in line? Does that even make sense to cheat on her?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most popular girl in school
- Thread starter Bling
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
You are just giving her a reason to get mad at you, leave you, and get with someone better than you.
DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.
Good Luck
DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.
Good Luck
yeah...cheating on her is a big mistake...expecially if u reason it on something she MIGHT do and then what if she doesnt...then she finds out u cheated on her...not only do you lose the hot chick...but u get a bad rep at the same time. not a wise decision my friend. but still keep doin what ur doin and she'll want you , and not even think about cheating on u.
TheCalmGuy
Don Juan
Tell us the whole story, how you got this chicks dude.
Honestly? She's the biggest w**** at the school. She loved attention. I just did what they told me to do at the Bible. Let her get use to the attention, and then just take it from her. I ignored her during class, I flirted with one of her friends right in front of her (I don't suggest doing this with one of her best friends, but her friend... they knew each other from another class and talked a little bit). Then when she looked at me, I would just look at her back, and show confidence by maintaining the eye contact. While she was having her popular football guys all over her, I just gave other people attention. I guess it bothered her.
It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.