"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's also a huge *****. So finally my DJ skills pay off, and I got her. But I don't want to lose her. So I figured to make sure she doesn't cheat on me (because chances are she'll cheat on me), I'd cheat on her. How can I keep her in line? Does that even make sense to cheat on her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You are just giving her a reason to get mad at you, leave you, and get with someone better than you.

DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.

Good Luck:up:
 

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yeah...cheating on her is a big mistake...expecially if u reason it on something she MIGHT do and then what if she doesnt...then she finds out u cheated on her...not only do you lose the hot chick...but u get a bad rep at the same time. not a wise decision my friend. but still keep doin what ur doin and she'll want you , and not even think about cheating on u.
 

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Honestly? She's the biggest w**** at the school. She loved attention. I just did what they told me to do at the Bible. Let her get use to the attention, and then just take it from her. I ignored her during class, I flirted with one of her friends right in front of her (I don't suggest doing this with one of her best friends, but her friend... they knew each other from another class and talked a little bit). Then when she looked at me, I would just look at her back, and show confidence by maintaining the eye contact. While she was having her popular football guys all over her, I just gave other people attention. I guess it bothered her.

It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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