She's also a huge *****. So finally my DJ skills pay off, and I got her. But I don't want to lose her. So I figured to make sure she doesn't cheat on me (because chances are she'll cheat on me), I'd cheat on her. How can I keep her in line? Does that even make sense to cheat on her?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Most popular girl in school
- Thread starter Bling
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
You are just giving her a reason to get mad at you, leave you, and get with someone better than you.
DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.
Good Luck
DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.
Good Luck
yeah...cheating on her is a big mistake...expecially if u reason it on something she MIGHT do and then what if she doesnt...then she finds out u cheated on her...not only do you lose the hot chick...but u get a bad rep at the same time. not a wise decision my friend. but still keep doin what ur doin and she'll want you , and not even think about cheating on u.
TheCalmGuy
Don Juan
Tell us the whole story, how you got this chicks dude.
Honestly? She's the biggest w**** at the school. She loved attention. I just did what they told me to do at the Bible. Let her get use to the attention, and then just take it from her. I ignored her during class, I flirted with one of her friends right in front of her (I don't suggest doing this with one of her best friends, but her friend... they knew each other from another class and talked a little bit). Then when she looked at me, I would just look at her back, and show confidence by maintaining the eye contact. While she was having her popular football guys all over her, I just gave other people attention. I guess it bothered her.
It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.