"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bling

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She's also a huge *****. So finally my DJ skills pay off, and I got her. But I don't want to lose her. So I figured to make sure she doesn't cheat on me (because chances are she'll cheat on me), I'd cheat on her. How can I keep her in line? Does that even make sense to cheat on her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wavejams007

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You are just giving her a reason to get mad at you, leave you, and get with someone better than you.

DJing means being independent. You should be acting at all times as if she is lucky to have you, and that lots of other girls are interested in you. If she thinks you are really on demand, then she will stick with you much more. Dude, just keep with this site, and you will learn, eventually, but use your head.

Good Luck:up:
 

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yeah...cheating on her is a big mistake...expecially if u reason it on something she MIGHT do and then what if she doesnt...then she finds out u cheated on her...not only do you lose the hot chick...but u get a bad rep at the same time. not a wise decision my friend. but still keep doin what ur doin and she'll want you , and not even think about cheating on u.
 

Bling

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Honestly? She's the biggest w**** at the school. She loved attention. I just did what they told me to do at the Bible. Let her get use to the attention, and then just take it from her. I ignored her during class, I flirted with one of her friends right in front of her (I don't suggest doing this with one of her best friends, but her friend... they knew each other from another class and talked a little bit). Then when she looked at me, I would just look at her back, and show confidence by maintaining the eye contact. While she was having her popular football guys all over her, I just gave other people attention. I guess it bothered her.

It really was luck. I do have above average looks, and the cards were really dealt in my favor. There really is no trick, but to read the Bible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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