"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most of the "advice" on this site is crap, and here's why

God_of_getting_layed

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backbreaker said:
instead of taking women theory 101, why not listen to the guys here who have bettered themselves and get ass on a constant basis?

you know what that tells me about people like you? you are lazy bums. You are the type of person that will break down each and every technique and analize if it works or not and why, but won't take the time to learn a new hobby or learn some history, or workout.

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Instead of taking the theory on women, why not learn from the people here who have succeed and work on yourself.
Well, see, the problem with listening to guys who get lots of ass is the credibility issue. here what I mean. first, A guy who gets ass could be phony troll. so dont always beleive them, they may not even be real. Theres plenty of trolls on here touting that they get lots of pssy and post advice when theyre probabbly a virgin phony. second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.

Besides, analyzing advice and techiniques bases itself on logic. and if it is logically consistent, then it has infinitely more weight and cedibility than any advice from a true guru ever will.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bvbidd

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God_of_getting_layed said:
second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.
Finally somebody said this.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bvbidd said:
Finally somebody said this.
I would say that would be true only for the so called "naturals" who never thought about why they are successful. Anybody who has practiced anything and has become successful has the ability to expound on how they did it. Now I will admit that just because you know what you've done does not mean that you would be a good teacher.
 

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if you read enough posts, and actually READ instead of looking for a quick fix, it doesn't take long to find out who has their **** in order.

even though I can't post there becuase I am too damn young, I get alot of advice/guidence whenever I need it, which is rare, from the mature man forum. Rollo, A-Unit, FA and a couple of other posters know their **** and I am never too good at anything to learn something new.


look.. it is really not that damn hard. start by actually reading the damn
DJ Bible and not just 2 or 3 posts the entire god damn thing.
 

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Each concept discussed on this site can be either golden or a disaster in itself. The difference between the two is routed entirely in timing and method of delivery. If something here isn't working for you, it's either out-dated or you're f-ing up one or both of those two elements... and I don't think kino is out-dated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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