"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most of the "advice" on this site is crap, and here's why

God_of_getting_layed

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backbreaker said:
instead of taking women theory 101, why not listen to the guys here who have bettered themselves and get ass on a constant basis?

you know what that tells me about people like you? you are lazy bums. You are the type of person that will break down each and every technique and analize if it works or not and why, but won't take the time to learn a new hobby or learn some history, or workout.

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Instead of taking the theory on women, why not learn from the people here who have succeed and work on yourself.
Well, see, the problem with listening to guys who get lots of ass is the credibility issue. here what I mean. first, A guy who gets ass could be phony troll. so dont always beleive them, they may not even be real. Theres plenty of trolls on here touting that they get lots of pssy and post advice when theyre probabbly a virgin phony. second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.

Besides, analyzing advice and techiniques bases itself on logic. and if it is logically consistent, then it has infinitely more weight and cedibility than any advice from a true guru ever will.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bvbidd

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God_of_getting_layed said:
second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.
Finally somebody said this.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bvbidd said:
Finally somebody said this.
I would say that would be true only for the so called "naturals" who never thought about why they are successful. Anybody who has practiced anything and has become successful has the ability to expound on how they did it. Now I will admit that just because you know what you've done does not mean that you would be a good teacher.
 

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if you read enough posts, and actually READ instead of looking for a quick fix, it doesn't take long to find out who has their **** in order.

even though I can't post there becuase I am too damn young, I get alot of advice/guidence whenever I need it, which is rare, from the mature man forum. Rollo, A-Unit, FA and a couple of other posters know their **** and I am never too good at anything to learn something new.


look.. it is really not that damn hard. start by actually reading the damn
DJ Bible and not just 2 or 3 posts the entire god damn thing.
 

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Each concept discussed on this site can be either golden or a disaster in itself. The difference between the two is routed entirely in timing and method of delivery. If something here isn't working for you, it's either out-dated or you're f-ing up one or both of those two elements... and I don't think kino is out-dated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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