"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Most of the "advice" on this site is crap, and here's why

God_of_getting_layed

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backbreaker said:
instead of taking women theory 101, why not listen to the guys here who have bettered themselves and get ass on a constant basis?

you know what that tells me about people like you? you are lazy bums. You are the type of person that will break down each and every technique and analize if it works or not and why, but won't take the time to learn a new hobby or learn some history, or workout.

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Instead of taking the theory on women, why not learn from the people here who have succeed and work on yourself.
Well, see, the problem with listening to guys who get lots of ass is the credibility issue. here what I mean. first, A guy who gets ass could be phony troll. so dont always beleive them, they may not even be real. Theres plenty of trolls on here touting that they get lots of pssy and post advice when theyre probabbly a virgin phony. second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.

Besides, analyzing advice and techiniques bases itself on logic. and if it is logically consistent, then it has infinitely more weight and cedibility than any advice from a true guru ever will.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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God_of_getting_layed said:
second, and this is the big one, even if they are the real deal, most guys dont know what theyre doing that is really getting them success. they cant tell what to attribute their success to.
Finally somebody said this.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bvbidd said:
Finally somebody said this.
I would say that would be true only for the so called "naturals" who never thought about why they are successful. Anybody who has practiced anything and has become successful has the ability to expound on how they did it. Now I will admit that just because you know what you've done does not mean that you would be a good teacher.
 

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if you read enough posts, and actually READ instead of looking for a quick fix, it doesn't take long to find out who has their **** in order.

even though I can't post there becuase I am too damn young, I get alot of advice/guidence whenever I need it, which is rare, from the mature man forum. Rollo, A-Unit, FA and a couple of other posters know their **** and I am never too good at anything to learn something new.


look.. it is really not that damn hard. start by actually reading the damn
DJ Bible and not just 2 or 3 posts the entire god damn thing.
 

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Each concept discussed on this site can be either golden or a disaster in itself. The difference between the two is routed entirely in timing and method of delivery. If something here isn't working for you, it's either out-dated or you're f-ing up one or both of those two elements... and I don't think kino is out-dated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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