"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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More ********: please decipher.

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I'm normally pretty good at deciphering ******** on the fly, but here's one that was tough, what does she mean when she says:

"I like being with you."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I find that's alot more then just "I like you". She's starting to have deeper feelings and wants to be your girlfriend. If she's already your girlfriend then she might be thinking about moving in. You could almost take it as "I like being with you........ all the time" At least that's been my experience.
 
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Hmm.... I thought it translated to "I don't like you".
 
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Well what did she say after that. Was it "I like being with you, BUT I'm married with three kids and I can't continue this relationship". Or was it after a great date and she just looked into your eyes and said "I like being with you".......no buts.......

Also, what would YOU mean if you said to a girl "I like being with you". Men and women are different but not that different.
 
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The context was, after the most perfect series of dates, the sex hurt her and after the second time she stayed over, and it hurt, and I had to stop, we were having doubts about the relationship. So it was like "I like being with you, but the sex part worries (her)".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil said:
The context was, after the most perfect series of dates, the sex hurt her and after the second time she stayed over, and it hurt, and I had to stop, we were having doubts about the relationship. So it was like "I like being with you, but the sex part worries (her)".
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To me that sounds like "I like being with you but we're not going to have sex anymore"
 
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Hmm, how about

"I'm happy with you"

This girl I ignore at times said that to me (I see her as less as possible. But everytime I do see her I make her have a good time) at one point when she wanted a break from her boyfriend. This is from a girl who has a total loser of a boyfriend (desperate, clingy, obsessive).
 
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Wow.... I never got dumped during sex before... I sure hope she lets me practice... women normally try and make it work after you sleep with them.
 
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'being with you' = I like you, but more as a friend. Or , "I like being with you when I have the time".
 
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So I'm wondering what to do next. Our last contact was a goodbye kiss 5 days ago. Is a girl obligated to thank me for dinner? Am I obligated to call and thank her (for sex)? Are we even? Should I wait it out until she contacts me (assuming her interest level is slipping it may be my only hope)? I did have another person (HB8 age 23) I saw Sat. but have to wonder if she had another date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol you must have sucked pretty bad at the sex part.

Try a lubricant next time.
 
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"more foreplay"
 
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Wow - talk about being bad in bed. I had to think back to the last girl who liked me less after sex, and I honestly couldn't think of one.

This girl is extremely uptight - I realized the next day giving her a massage - her back was one big knot.

I did do foreplay for 15 minutes, but she doesn't like oral sex so all the lessons I got from the bisexual women did me no good. No spanking. No oral. No anal. No bondage. Man.

But then she kept saying "You can deeper, you can go harder - you can go faster" until "OW - that does it - stop.". It was like torture.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel like a pair of shoes sitting on the shelf at the store. She tried me on and bought me and wore me for one night but I didn't fit quite right so she returned me the next day.
 
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