Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

More evidence of Chaos Theory

christie

Banned
Joined
Oct 29, 2020
Messages
786
Reaction score
491
ok man, don't let it bring you down. I just feel so much better personally knowing those 'circles' can't affect me anymore. I'm out of reach now that I'm off social media and OLD. I feel like the free and curious pre-boyfriends Christie again. Experiencing rapid, unfettered growth.

You're too valuable. Have a lot to contribute. Stay strong and kinglike.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
ok man, don't let it bring you down. I just feel so much better personally knowing those 'circles' can't affect me anymore. I'm out of reach now that I'm off social media and OLD. I feel like the free and curious pre-boyfriends Christie again. Experiencing rapid, unfettered growth.

You're too valuable. Have a lot to contribute. Stay strong and kinglike.
If I wanted to write a book or go after an additional degree I'd stay out of ALL of those communications for months at a time.
 

christie

Banned
Joined
Oct 29, 2020
Messages
786
Reaction score
491
awesome! I hope you do both....didn't know you even had one degree.Congrats.

I'm on you because it seemed you were upset by what you learned about the females committing violence. I still don't quite understand the pic you posted.

So I thought I'd give you some feminine-based encouragement.

You know I will never forget for my entire life the poignant, helpful kind advice you've given me on this board in 2020. Like family.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
awesome! I hope you do both....didn't know you even had one degree.Congrats.
I have a stack of degrees, actually... I burned all but the one I use...

Actually in my field having a masters or PHD does not help you one bit. So I have my bachelors in it and 20+ years of experience.

I'm on you because it seemed you were upset by what you learned about the females committing violence. I still don't quite understand the pic you posted.
Ignore the pic. While I was aware the the stats of violence against men were artificially low because men don't report for fear of further ostracism, I didn't know that the f*ist knew for a fact, and also that the system knew. This "in the know" lady says they KNEW since the 70's...

So I thought I'd give you some feminine-based encouragement.

You know I will never forget for my entire life the poignant, helpful kind advice you've given me on this board in 2020. Like family.
What I was saying is that staying off of those devices, staying in the present and not being interrupted by Facebooks, or a popup, or texting or the phone, and getting thoughts planted by those media or getting off track is powerful.

I could seriously see a time where I go 60-90 days, no social media, no phone except my kids, no browsing the web or anything and focusing on some things i want to get done. To refocus myself, to regain my resolve and to get my "time back" from the various time wasters and distractors and put my focus level how I desire it to be.
 

christie

Banned
Joined
Oct 29, 2020
Messages
786
Reaction score
491
it is powerful to avoid the 'medias'

Try giving up tv. Awesome energy and selfconfidence when one does.

That "I have a stack of degrees, actually.... I burned all but the one I use" is the GOAT phrase I've ever read.

Much respect. Keep up the good work.
What's the next degree in? Gender studies? You would do well.

So one man I dated had been physically abused by the girl before me. At one point he was face to face with the director of female shelters back east at some fundraising event and pointblank asked her why there wasn't any male domestic abuse survivor shelters available in the city?
Told her about his personal anguish trying to find some community support and seeing there was none.

The director was speechless, he said.

There is a real need.

2 or 3 yt videos by Paul Elam -An ear for men discuss this.

I think the topic is brought up in the Red Pill documentary too.

As per the topic of this thread, more evidence women are chaotic(inconsistent)
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top