"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Moral dillemma tonight

Flabbergasped?

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Kind of a FR, not really.

Friend of a friend was wasted and all over me tonight. I helped her home and got her in bed, even though she was making out w/ me, clearly wanting the d!ck

I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to not fvck a wasted chick, but I'm sure she's going to wake up tomorrow and deepthroat some other guy. Should I have struck while the iron is hot, or was this "nice guy" action warranted?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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stubbornlights

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Seems like you already know you made the right decision.
I kindof go by the unspoken rule that I have to be as drunk, if not drunker than, the chick to do anything with her without seriously pissing off my conscience.
 

MANG

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you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
 

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MANG said:
you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
listening to this guy will get you nine to five in the near future.


Flabbergasped? said:
I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to
outstanding choice!
 

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When in doubt, do what your gut tells you. But make sure you aren't doing it out of fear, but because you really believe its right. There is a difference. That being said...

I know more than a couple of girls who use the soriety girl mating call when they want to get it on with you "OH I'M SOOOOOOOOOO DRUNK!" and they aren't as drunk as they put on...they just need a socially acceptable excuse.

I dated this former intern from my job and she got ****ty drunk, I let her sleep on my couch. The next morning...she tells me how I'm so much nicer than other guys she dates because I didn't try anything. I was thinking to myself "bytch, after holding your hair over the toliet and smelling your stank ass vomit breath, why would I want to try anything you drunk ho?" but I just smiled and let it go. She came back in town a few months later, we went out to dinner and I fcked her.

So follow your gut. But don't follow your fear.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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