"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Moral dillemma tonight

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Flabbergasped?

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Kind of a FR, not really.

Friend of a friend was wasted and all over me tonight. I helped her home and got her in bed, even though she was making out w/ me, clearly wanting the d!ck

I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to not fvck a wasted chick, but I'm sure she's going to wake up tomorrow and deepthroat some other guy. Should I have struck while the iron is hot, or was this "nice guy" action warranted?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seems like you already know you made the right decision.
I kindof go by the unspoken rule that I have to be as drunk, if not drunker than, the chick to do anything with her without seriously pissing off my conscience.
 
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you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
 
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MANG said:
you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
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listening to this guy will get you nine to five in the near future.


Flabbergasped? said:
I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to
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outstanding choice!
 
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When in doubt, do what your gut tells you. But make sure you aren't doing it out of fear, but because you really believe its right. There is a difference. That being said...

I know more than a couple of girls who use the soriety girl mating call when they want to get it on with you "OH I'M SOOOOOOOOOO DRUNK!" and they aren't as drunk as they put on...they just need a socially acceptable excuse.

I dated this former intern from my job and she got ****ty drunk, I let her sleep on my couch. The next morning...she tells me how I'm so much nicer than other guys she dates because I didn't try anything. I was thinking to myself "bytch, after holding your hair over the toliet and smelling your stank ass vomit breath, why would I want to try anything you drunk ho?" but I just smiled and let it go. She came back in town a few months later, we went out to dinner and I fcked her.

So follow your gut. But don't follow your fear.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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