"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moral dillemma tonight

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Flabbergasped?

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Kind of a FR, not really.

Friend of a friend was wasted and all over me tonight. I helped her home and got her in bed, even though she was making out w/ me, clearly wanting the d!ck

I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to not fvck a wasted chick, but I'm sure she's going to wake up tomorrow and deepthroat some other guy. Should I have struck while the iron is hot, or was this "nice guy" action warranted?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seems like you already know you made the right decision.
I kindof go by the unspoken rule that I have to be as drunk, if not drunker than, the chick to do anything with her without seriously pissing off my conscience.
 
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you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
 
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MANG said:
you shouldve ****ed her. She knew what she was doing, she was just drunk which made her less shy. Now she feels rejected and embarrassed. You shouldve at least hit it in the morning.
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listening to this guy will get you nine to five in the near future.


Flabbergasped? said:
I figured it's better for my rep and my conscience to
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outstanding choice!
 
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When in doubt, do what your gut tells you. But make sure you aren't doing it out of fear, but because you really believe its right. There is a difference. That being said...

I know more than a couple of girls who use the soriety girl mating call when they want to get it on with you "OH I'M SOOOOOOOOOO DRUNK!" and they aren't as drunk as they put on...they just need a socially acceptable excuse.

I dated this former intern from my job and she got ****ty drunk, I let her sleep on my couch. The next morning...she tells me how I'm so much nicer than other guys she dates because I didn't try anything. I was thinking to myself "bytch, after holding your hair over the toliet and smelling your stank ass vomit breath, why would I want to try anything you drunk ho?" but I just smiled and let it go. She came back in town a few months later, we went out to dinner and I fcked her.

So follow your gut. But don't follow your fear.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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