"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Curious if you guys alter your strategy when it comes to meeting/dating women with kids. Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ElStud

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You should NEVER alter your game when your talking to girls.
 

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do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?

oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'd alter my expectations.
 

movistar

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I find women with kids don't seem to have as much time on their hands, they don't bulls*it as much. When you are alone with them they are usually eager to please.
Don't change your game though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DakotaDan said:
Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, ...

True, at least for the less narcissistic ones.
 

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The thing about Moms is that their lives revolve around their kids....
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
 
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Baby mama drama!!!! Looking for a husband!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Adrian said:
Get along with her kids.
And lose your power as a man!!! You gained a hor and lost your MANHOOD - YIPPPPEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
 
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