Curious if you guys alter your strategy when it comes to meeting/dating women with kids. Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Moms
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
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do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I'd alter my expectations.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
maranathaman
Master Don Juan
The thing about Moms is that their lives revolve around their kids....
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
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Either that or she hates men because of her baby daddy and thinks they're good for nothing but the schlong, in which case you're golden :rockon:
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Baby mama drama!!!! Looking for a husband!!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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And lose your power as a man!!! You gained a hor and lost your MANHOOD - YIPPPPEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!Adrian said: