"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Curious if you guys alter your strategy when it comes to meeting/dating women with kids. Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You should NEVER alter your game when your talking to girls.
 

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do you think women with children seek out different qualities and behaviors in men?

oh yeah, they are interviewing potential daddies.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'd alter my expectations.
 

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I find women with kids don't seem to have as much time on their hands, they don't bulls*it as much. When you are alone with them they are usually eager to please.
Don't change your game though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DakotaDan said:
Seeing as how their lives no longer revolve solely around themselves, ...

True, at least for the less narcissistic ones.
 

maranathaman

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The thing about Moms is that their lives revolve around their kids....
You know what this means for you?
This means that you get the leftovers of her time, energy, attention and affection.
I been there done that on more than one occasion and unless you REALLY like kids and want to have kids, I reccomend that you avoid Moms...
 
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Baby mama drama!!!! Looking for a husband!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Adrian said:
Get along with her kids.
And lose your power as a man!!! You gained a hor and lost your MANHOOD - YIPPPPEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
 
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